Why do people assume that they don’t deserve to be loved, looked after, or adored? Why do you keep underestimating yourself?
Stop allowing others to underestimate you, and take a look at yourself and you’ll know just how much better you are and once you do start seeing your own worth, once you appreciate yourself more, then you would know that it no longer matters, what anybody else thinks.
Challenge yourself; try to be better than you were yesterday.
The only person you should try to be better than, is the person you were yesterday.
Life is not about challenging others and getting lost while trying to beat someone at some ranking of some sort, life is lost that way, it only ruins you, hurts you and puts you under loads of pressure trying to pick up and be like this, like that and on and on.
Thou competition is cool and everything, you should be mostly competing against yourself, because overly competitive people live a hard life and view everything as a competition in which they need to ace.
Have you ever noticed how Low self-esteem people tend to struggle to get others to like them? how they struggle into fitting the society standards, always scared, anxious, and on their feet, afraid of whoever is there to comment, on how they dress, look and talk.
This is why they prefer for you to accept them for their changing personality, instead of being themselves, they try their best to change “constantly” according to society standards, to stand out or be accepted, losing their identity and struggling with themselves.